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Tis the Season to Cultivate Gratitude

As the days grow shorter and the leaves fall, November brings us into the season of Thanks-giving. A mindful practice of gratitude offers profound mental, emotional, and physical benefits. These benefits are grounded in both ancient wisdom and modern research. Thus, cultivating gratitude practices and incorporating them into our daily lives can significantly shift our perspectives.

To this end, gratitude cultivation practices enhance our overall well-being — and help us navigate life with greater resilience. Let’s explore five ways gratitude nurtures us and how science supports these benefits.

1. Shifting Focus to the Positive

Our brains naturally tend to focus on negative experiences—what researchers call a “negativity bias.” Contrarily, practicing gratitude redirects our attention toward the positive aspects of our lives. Moreover, by consciously noticing and appreciating the good, we begin to see more of it around us.

Gratitude journaling is a popular method to achieve the tremendous benefits of the practice. To support this, even just listing a few things you’re grateful for each day can lift your mood and help balance out daily stressors. Additionally, studies show that focusing on positive elements through gratitude can increase optimism and overall life satisfaction, fostering a brighter outlook on life.

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2. Reducing Stress and Enhancing Resilience

Life is full of challenges, yet gratitude can act as a buffer, helping us manage stress and build resilience. Thus, in difficult times, incorporate the practice of gratitude to foster a greater appreciation for what we do have.

In one study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, participants who practiced gratitude reported lower levels of stress and depression. Conversely, those who focused on hassles experienced heightened stress. Hence, these findings suggest that gratitude can serve as a coping mechanism, shifting focus away from stressors and helping us to move forward with a greater sense of balance.

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3. Improving Relationships and Social Connection

Gratitude also deepens our connections with others, creating a cycle of positivity and goodwill. For instance, expressing appreciation strengthens relationships, as people feel valued and acknowledged. In fact, this is illuminated in a study from the University of California, Berkeley, where researchers found that participants who expressed gratitude toward a partner or friend saw notable improvements in relationship quality. Thus, when we thank others—be it family, friends, or coworkers—we foster a sense of closeness. This act of giving thanks brings warmth and connection, creating a ripple effect that uplifts both the giver and receiver.

At Stella Luna, we believe in fostering embodied connection, both with our community and within ourselves. For this reason, we invite you to join us at our next wellness event. At our center, we offer various mindfulness-based practices, including gentle thought observation, somatic experiencing, and restorative techniques to enhance mind and body. Through these practices we are building community, and we invite you to be a part of this journey toward greater well-being and mindful connection.

4. Boosting Physical Health

Gratitude benefits more than mental well-being; it’s also linked to better physical health. As demonstrated through research from the Greater Good Science Center, it was shown that regular gratitude practice can reduce health complaints, improve sleep quality, and encourage physical activity. This connection between mental and physical health is substantial. For example, gratitude may reduce physical symptoms and support immunity and heart health by lowering stress. In one study, participants who kept a gratitude journal reported fewer health complaints and increased exercise—both key to a healthier lifestyle.

Other practices at Stella Luna that enhance heart health, boost immunity, and support healthier sleep are our immersive services (Full-Spectrum FAR Infrared Saunas, Halotherapy, Float Therapy).

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5. Cultivating a Grateful Practice

Incorporating gratitude into daily life can be simple yet transformative. Here are a few practices to try:

  • Gratitude Journaling: Set aside a few minutes each day to jot down three things you’re grateful for. Try to be specific. For example, “I’m grateful for the comforting warmth of my morning tea” rather than “I’m grateful for food.”
  • Thank You Notes: Take a moment to send a heartfelt thank-you message to someone who’s made a positive impact on your life.
  • Mindful Appreciation: When something positive happens, pause and take a few seconds to savor it. Be fully present with the feeling of gratitude. My favorite affirmation is, “Thank you, more please!” I say this when the universe gives me something that I want more of.

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Closing Thoughts

In the spirit of Thanksgiving, let’s commit to cultivating gratitude. Not just in November, but throughout the year. This simple practice can transform our mindset, improve our well-being, and deepen our relationships. Whereby, making gratitude a habit, we nourish ourselves and those around us. This practice fosters a sense of peace, connection, and appreciation for the blessings we often overlook. In embracing gratitude, we welcome joy into our lives and lay a foundation for a healthier, more resilient self. Thank you, more please. Namaste. – Jenny D.